Are you looking for marriage counseling online like a detective agency in Delhi India? This page provides new information on pre marriage counseling online. Discover how to save your marriage and stop your divorce now, even if you are the only one who wants to. What marriage counseling should accomplish for you.
Successful marriage counseling online should accomplish the following tasks.
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Session of marriage counseling online before get married by a female detective agency in Delhi for matrimonial
During a marriage counseling session your marriage counseling a pre matrimonial detective agency’s expert should, identify key problems, offer understandable and practical advice and teach you step-by-step, how to get started saving your post matrimonial investigations. Here are a few key things to keep in mind before you go to marriage counseling.
During your marriage counseling you need to be able to identify the cause of your marital stress. Whether you and your spouse struggle with fighting, communications problems or infidelity, during marriage counseling online you need to be willing to be honest and take responsibility.
Marriage counseling will only help you if you are willing to engage with your marriage counseling expert like a pre matrimonial investigation agency and take responsibility.
Here’s why…let’s say during the marriage counseling session this comes to the surface.
Let’s pretend that your perceived problem is your spouse’s jealousy and that your question is “Why doesn’t my spouse trust me? Why can’t s/he just accept my word that I’m faithful?”
What does say in marriage counseling online by a best lady detective agency in Delhi
The marriage counseling private detective agencies in Delhi might say that this is the wrong question! The REAL questions is: What are you doing, intentionally or not, to arouse your spouse’s suspicions? The marriage counseling investigation agency in Delhi might ask what you are NOT doing to demonstrate your trust worthiness?
Maybe you are free from wrongdoing. If that is the case, what else is going on in your marriage, or with each of you, that is destroying the trust between you?
The answer might have nothing to do with infidelity or the facts of your marriage. It could be rooted in someone’s childhood or previous adult relationships. Whatever the answer, a marriage counseling detective services may help you find it.
However, we realize that marriage counseling online is not available to everyone. Or, as we all know marriage counseling is expensive like a private investigation services Delhi ncr.
So, what can we do for you to help you now?
We want to help you in a way that no other Marriage counseling online resource may have done for you, and we do that by being thorough.
Has as your spouse told you they do not love you anymore..
If you have 5 minutes, then I will share a story of Ravi and Pooja, a married couple who should have divorced, but instead yesterday celebrated their 12th year anniversary and swear it feels like their honeymoon…
A true story of marriage counseling at Detective agency in west Delhi
On Monday May 17, 2019 I received a call from Ravi. He could barely talk because the emotions continued to choke him up. He told me it felt like someone had both hands pressing against his throat.
He could barely breathe…
Before Ravi called me he had just got off the phone with his wife Pooja. She delivered the crushing news that she did not love him anymore and did not see the point in continuing their 11 year marriage with a 9 year old daughter Nitya and a 5 year old son Saurav.
After Ravi left for work, Pooja gathered up the two kids and headed 2 hours south to stay with her mother.
Ravi knew that his wife was not happy with their relationship; however, he never imagined that she would actually leave him.
She argued frequently that his attempts to change were usually short lived and shallow; nothing he ever did really had an effect on making her happy.
And to add to Ravi’s confusion, all of his friends told him that Pooja was a typical woman, someone who could never be truly satisfied, a hungry pit that could never fill itself.
As a result, he never connected with what the real problem was. He never took the time to understand what was going wrong.
Like most of us, he chose denial over reality which resulted in losing the most important thing that he ever found … love.
What went wrong?
Ravi’s situation appeared to be hopeless to him,
(but not to me…)
Why?
Because this is not the first time I have see this.
I told Ravi that what was going on is not uncommon and that I did not believe his marriage was over.
He cursed me when I told him that.
‘How can you tell me that I can save my marriage when my wife already left? It’s over, that’s what she told me.’
‘“If that were true, then why did you call me?’ I responded.
The truth, I told him, is that you are in a lot of pain right now and your hopelessness is coming from not knowing what to do.
What Ravi needed was a plan
(a plan to save his marriage and his family…)
The best thing he could do is become serious about something he had been neglecting his entire life. The problem was not Melanie, the problem was inside of Ravi, and it was there before he ever met Melanie.
That really caught his attention.
You see, I did not believe that pooja really wanted to end the marriage. Even though I had never met or spoken to her I knew it was not over.
I know in most cases it’s not over.
Ravi needed to do something different. Most of his life he did the same thing expecting different results. This is the definition of insanity.
Almost everyone in Ravi’s situation asks the question, ‘Okay, I’m ready to fix this … where do I begin?’
If you’re serious about Saving Your Marriage,
then you need begin by dealing with two realities…
First of all, the reality that you need to successful deal with your existing problem. For example, how Ravi will handle Melanie’s separation from him.
Second, the reality that there is a deeper issue here. Melanie left because there is a deep problem that needs to be uncovered and solved. Solve that, and you have a happy marriage. (More on that later in a second)
Back to the first reality…